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Mariumrehan
3 min readJun 3, 2021

Have you ever encountered a situation when it seems that every possible door to get out of a problem or a difficulty is closed? Ever felt like you are helpless when mates, friends, the people around you or even your own family seems like strange? If you ever felt these kinds of situations you are not alone and the good news is that there is always a solution for every obstacle or problem in this world. This is nature and reality which pushes you in a situation in which no matter how good you treat the other beings, you find out that the whole world is against you. Some people under go through depression or other kinds of traumas while facing these situations but other stay strong and cope with the situations no matter what arrives.

The question arrives that what are the strategies that should be adopted in these situations? There are many solutions and one of them, the most important one is to get inspiration and reflection from the ones who survived from these kinds of situations. Learning from their lives, focusing on their successes and failures. A major problem which every person face is that they fully depend on others to solve their own issues. No one can change a person if the person himself is not willingly ready to change. It’s a task which one should complete alone. “Each person’s task in life is to become an increasingly better person.”- Leo Tolstoy. The quotation is taken from the article named 111 Inspiring Quotes about Changing Yourself into a Better Person written by Pegah Malekpour Alamdari.

As the above quotation defines learning from the past and not repeating the mistakes done in the past, in future is also a source of inspiration. Learning from both the successes and failures experienced in the past is worth learning. Self-assessment of the past is important. Acceptance is an important term of life and in practical life is a fundamental phase. Accepting yourself as you are, as you were created and inspiring others in your own way only is a positive way of serving mankind. Fighting as a concrete rock and facing every blow thrown at you without blinking is the real challenge. Inspiration is not only described as a smart or intelligent idea, or only the thought of achieving something creative or worthy, it is to change your own perspectives and with them helping others to change theirs in a positive way. The worries, overthinking, negative thoughts all these could be overcome with positive way of thinking, point of view. “Everyone looks retarded once you set your mind to it.”-David Sedaris

Inspiration within oneself despite of all the traumas, difficulties faced by, is just like a ray of light or strings of hope that helps a drowning person to get out from the sea of darkness. One should not erase it from the soul and should face and adopt the strategies to tackle from the situations which tries to demolish inspiration.

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